Love?

Sometimes, I will think in such way.

Love? A game? A life? A matter? Well, it doesn't matter actually. But, I can see most of the teenagers nowadays are so desperate for love.

No matter in what way they search for love, I can see that most of their intention is actually wrong.

What makes us need love? Natural reaction? Yes, I do not deny the statement. I believe, Jesus' love is the greatest one. No one can surpass Him because he died for us and paid the price.


Teenagers like dating so much in these days. At such a young age, like 13 years old, they already start to date with other people which some of them they do not really know them well yet. Moreover, they just want to satisfy their temporary needs but do not think for the future.

I asked some of my friends before. Why do you want to date at such an age? Some of them told me, "AIYA, play play jeh mah.... gain some kau lui/zai experience only. " and some said "I feel so lonely and I need accompany."

This is what the world is thinking right now. They date and do not plan for the future but just want to satisfy temporary needs. This can lead to misunderstanding in each other and other side effects. That is why so many people are heart broken and cannot face the reality of "breaking up". Some of them are so silly by commiting suicide.

I very agree with one of my friend comment.

"IF YOU NEVER PLAN FOR MARRIAGE, DO NOT EVEN THINK OF DATING!!"

It sounds true huh?

Actually, this thing doesn't only happen to the world, it also happened in churches as well. What I can say is.........

"TRUE LOVE WAITS"

Learn to be patient and wait for the time to come. But I bet some of you are asking, WHEN IS THE APPROPRIATE TIME THEN? I don't know, pray hard and ask God lah... I believe He has a plan for everyone of us. Do what you should now. Always remember, your spouse and your husband, is your life partner!

There is no refund, changing or escaping!

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